Ask. That is the key to getting what you want.
Sometimes with marriage we get stuck in the mode of being mad that our spouse is not meeting our needs! Like the busy wife running around the house packing for a trip and the husband on the couch playing a game on his phone…
Well, what if that wife slowed down enough to kindly ask for help and give specific instructions on what she needs help with? Any man in his right mind would jump up and help, right? But what if she doesn’t ask and she just keeps running around doing it all herself getting more and more angry. This is a set up for failure situation.
Please, do yourself a favor and ask next time.